Marriage Counseling Questions You Should Always Ask

No one wants to admit their love life is not going well. However, there is no shame in needing some marriage counseling. Counseling could be needed for many reasons, such as lack of intimacy, anger problems, fights, not feeling loved, etc. If you feel that your marriage needs help, here are some marriage counseling questions to ask when trying to find the best counselor for you and your spouse.

1. Have you ever had personal or relationship counseling yourself?
Many people neglect this monumental question. The counselor should not stutter. They should have had some sort of counseling before, because it shows they will be helpful and not be judgmental. If they just say no and change the subject, find someone who is honest with themselves and others. You want someone who is willing to give an answer and back that answer up.

2. Ask about their training and background. Are they licensed?
You should not go to a counselor who has no formal training. They may know what they are talking about, but they may not. They could inadvertently make matters worse while trying to help.
Being licensed with their state is an added bonus for you. You can feel better knowing your therapist is certified by the state.

3. Find out how much of their practice is individual versus marriage or couple.
If a counselor deals mainly with individuals, they may not have the skills necessary to deal with couples. You and your spouse will be in the room together. The counselor must know how to handle arguments or both people speaking at the same time.

4. How much will it cost?
-Will they take your insurance?
-If you have to miss a session, do you still have to pay and how much?
-Does your income affect how much you must pay?

5. Has the therapist ever recommended divorce?
If you are opposed to divorce, this is an extremely important question.

Knowing what type of marriage counseling questions to ask is a great way to start rebuilding your relationship with your spouse. Research well and ask, ask, ask. Never feel bad for wanting the best.